Law of Attraction

I had written this article in my wikispace about a year back. I am re-posting in this blog.
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In our day to day lives we make choice on choosing a life partner. The question is what makes us to decide, who is right life partner? As life is not predictable, you will need to make a choice whether you like it or not.

Most of the time, you do make a choice in a given situation, what are these factors which effect our choices, what is that we seek in other person? What is that we want to share with other person life long? The answers and questions vary from person to person. Compatibility is one of the most. There are 4 levels of compatibility between couples;

Compatibility at the spiritual level
It is about the intellectual and higher purpose compatibility, where both people believe in having higher purpose of living, share a greater vision, unconditional love and compassion. Both will have great will and are strong individuals.Ex: Ramakrishna paramahamsa and his wife sharada mata, Narayan Murthy and his wife sudha murthyThese couples have higher and greater value for life and the purposes are clear.

Compatibility at the mental level
At this level the individual are attracted from their egoism, jealousy and for greater benefits of his or her own need then the both the couples interest.The factor which attracts one person to other person is about the social security and status the person gets by getting married. At this level the person feels attracted to the opposite sex on what benefits he will get in terms of wealth, property, job etc.

Compatibility at the emotional level
This factor is most common among average human population, where a emotional factors influence the attraction between two individual. How each person understands the other person at the emotional level is the only source of foundation of this type of compatibility. It can be sensitivity level, social, introvert, outspoken, jovial etc.

Compatibility at the physical level
The physical level compatibility is more at the superficial level, skin color, height, weight etc. At a average the attraction of physical level is very stronger then the any other levels mentioned above. This applies to average population. Infatuation plays a vital role in getting attracted to other person and choosing his/her life partner.

Religion and castism also plays a vital role in choosing what you choose.

In life all 4 compatibility comes into play, but scales of each level differs between each couples. The life’s purpose and fulfillment can be achieved at spiritual compatibility. And couples who share such compatibility are the blessed one.